Services

Couples Therapy

Couples therapy helps partners strengthen communication, rebuild trust, and resolve recurring conflict patterns.

What couples therapy can help with

Couples therapy helps partners understand the cycle they get caught in and practice new ways of responding to each other. The goal is not to decide who is the problem; it is to make the pattern visible and create a safer path forward.

  • Communication breakdowns, recurring conflict, shutdown, criticism, and defensiveness.
  • Trust repair, infidelity recovery, emotional distance, and resentment.
  • Premarital conversations, parenting stress, intimacy concerns, and shared decision-making.

What sessions may look like

Sessions create structure for conversations that may feel hard to have at home. Your therapist can help slow the conversation down, clarify what each partner is reaching for, and practice repair instead of repeating the same argument.

  • Map the recurring cycle and learn what each partner does when protection takes over.
  • Practice clearer requests, deeper listening, and repair after painful moments.
  • Create agreements and follow-through steps that support connection outside session.

Relationship anxiety — therapists who understand it

Relationship anxiety — persistent worry about your partner's feelings, the security of the relationship, or your own worthiness as a partner — is one of the most searched and least addressed concerns in couples therapy. It often shows up as reassurance-seeking, jealousy, hypervigilance, or emotional reactivity that both partners struggle to make sense of. Therapy can help identify the underlying pattern, reduce its intensity, and build a more secure foundation.

  • Understand where relationship anxiety comes from and why it keeps recurring.
  • Build more secure attachment patterns and reduce reassurance-seeking cycles.
  • Strengthen trust, communication, and steadiness between partners.

How much does couples therapy cost?

Couples therapy at Mountain Family Therapy costs $195 for an intake session and $165 for standard sessions. Most insurance plans do not cover couples therapy — it is typically self-pay. That said, many couples find that even a focused short course of sessions makes a meaningful difference. If cost is a concern, it is worth talking through what a realistic cadence looks like during the consultation.

  • Intake session: $195. Standard sessions: $165.
  • Insurance is generally not accepted for couples therapy — sessions are self-pay.
  • Affordable options may include less frequent sessions or a short-term focused format.

Common couples therapy topics

Infidelity Recovery

Infidelity recovery therapy focuses on rebuilding trust, transparency, and emotional safety between partners.

Communication

Communication-focused couples therapy helps partners reduce misunderstandings and increase clarity and responsiveness.

Trust

Trust-building therapy helps partners strengthen consistency, safety, and reliability within their relationship.

Marriage

Marriage therapy supports long-term relationship stability, shared goals, and emotional connection.

Premarital Counseling

Premarital counseling helps couples prepare for shared expectations, decision-making, and future planning.

Discernment Counseling

Discernment counseling helps ambivalent couples gain clarity about whether to work on the relationship, separate, or pursue divorce.

Divorce Counseling

Divorce counseling supports individuals and couples navigating separation with clarity, reduced conflict, and emotional stability.

Available by state

Two concerns we see often and write about in depth: attachment (the underlying patterns that drive how partners reach for each other and respond under stress), and infidelity recovery (including for couples who are still deciding whether rebuilding is what they want). Both pages give an honest account of what the work actually involves.

Couples therapy at Mountain Family Therapy draws on research-supported approaches, including findings from the Gottman Institute. Decades of longitudinal research are published through the Gottman Institute research on relationship health.

Service FAQ

Questions about couples therapy

Do both partners need to be ready for couples therapy?

It helps when both partners are willing to participate, but they do not need to feel equally hopeful at the start. Couples therapy often begins by creating enough safety and structure to talk more productively.

Can couples therapy help after trust has been broken?

Couples therapy can support trust repair when partners are willing to work with honesty, accountability, impact, and boundaries. The process can also help clarify whether rebuilding is possible and what would need to change.

Is online couples therapy effective?

Online couples therapy can work well when both partners have privacy, stable internet, and a willingness to slow down the conversation. It can also make scheduling easier for busy couples.

Is couples therapy covered by insurance?

Most insurance plans do not cover couples therapy. Mountain Family Therapy does not accept insurance for couples sessions — they are billed out of pocket. Individual therapy, however, may be covered depending on your plan and the therapist's licensure.

How much does couples therapy cost?

Couples therapy intake sessions are $195, and standard sessions are $165. Because insurance typically does not cover couples therapy, sessions are self-pay. Some couples adjust frequency to fit their budget while still making consistent progress.

Is affordable couples therapy possible?

Affordable couples therapy depends on what a realistic session cadence looks like for your situation. Some couples meet every other week or do a short-term focused format rather than open-ended weekly therapy. A consultation can help clarify what fits both your goals and your budget.

Can couples therapy help with relationship anxiety?

Yes. Relationship anxiety — including worry about the relationship's security, reassurance-seeking, or fear of abandonment — is a common focus in couples therapy. Sessions can help both partners understand the pattern, reduce its intensity, and build a more secure dynamic over time.

Not ready to commit to sessions yet? Our free couples therapy workbook is a free, private starting point — no account or signup required.

Pricing

Intake sessions are $195. Standard sessions are $165.

Couples intake sessions are $195 for the first appointment.

Ongoing couples therapy sessions are $165 per standard session.

Insurance is not accepted for couples therapy. Sessions are self-pay.